As a proud Gen X'er, I get to stand firmly on the line between the old-line thinking of the baby-boomers and Generation Y. I'm not sure anyone younger than Gen Y even has a label yet, but I hope it's cooler than Gen Y, which was a lame a cop-out for generational monikers.
What I'm amazed at, from this vantage point, is how many people in my generation still hold on to old-school ways of thinking, not because they still make sense, but because they carried them from their parents who presumably carried them from their own parents.
What's happened in the last twenty years is a massive shift from industrial-age thinking to information-age thinking.
The laws of life that made a lot of sense twenty years ago in many ways just don't apply anymore, and we need to write some new ones.
Yet we still hold on to those laws as if they were written yesterday. Maybe some of this old-line wisdom still holds up for you, but I would ask you to challenge everything you were told. There's a huge penalty for accepting old-line thinking in a new age, and we've seen countless companies die in it's wake.
Here are my Top 3 Favorite "Lessons" that I want to put out to pasture -
College is Really Important - College is marginally important unless you're going to to be a doctor or a lawyer. College was really important when it was the difference between working in the factory of GM or working in the office park. These days experience is really important. Everyone goes to college (your mom goes to college), the people that excel now get kick-ass work experience.
You Want a Steady Job - The days of working 50 years at IBM and getting a golden watch at retirement are long since dead. It worked for your dad, great. It doesn't work anymore. These days "steady" means "static" and static means dying. You don't want a steady job, you want a job that can push you to learn as fast as you can digest information and reward you for as much as you can deliver. As it happens, big companies don't offer that opportunity, startup companies do.
You Need to Save for Retirement - Back when people retired at 65 and died at 75 you could save for your retirement and maybe be OK. With the advances in medicine by the time you hit 65 you'll probably live to be 90 or 100. If you think saving alone is going to give you a 30-year salary you're out of your mind. You can't think about how you're going to save enough money in your retirement, you better be thinking about how you're going to make money in your retirement. Or just never retire, which is my preference!
I'm amazed at how blindly my friends, colleagues and neighbors hold onto these dated truths as if they were written and proven yesterday. My friends - let's re-write the wisdom!
What other "laws" need to be re-written while we're at it?
- You won't own a car for more than 5 years; a car is now a recycled commodity
- You'll never be in your house long enough to pay it off
- Retirement doesn't mean much - you work in an office, not a factory or on the farm
- Blue Collar workers wear ties and work in cubicles now
- You're going to make substantially more than your parents, not a little more
- Doctors and Lawyers are second rate income-producing jobs next to marketers and technologists
- The shelf life of your skill set is probably less than 15 years vs. an entire career for your parents